Recent Post: 8TH STREET LATINAS 8THSTREETLATINAS stuck her head into the study and wondered if she could ask me some questions. "You sure can, Suzy," I answered. "What's on your mind?"
"Well," she replied, "I'm not quite sure how to begin."
"You know me well enough to say what's on your mind, Suzy. Just ask whatever you would like," I encouraged her.
"OK, then. Here goes. I was wondering if you could give me some advice about sex. All though high school I was so busy that I never got into sex like a lot of the other girls. And last year in college, I was kind of afraid to get too involved with any of the boys. I just don't have any experience and I was hoping that you could give me some direction."
"Have you ever had sex?," I asked.
"Well, on Prom night I did it with a boy, but I didn't know what I was doing and it was over so fast. Other than that, all I ever did was kiss and let boys feel me and feel them if they asked."
I quickly thought about Suzy's request and how I might help. "Suzy," I said, "I think the secret to sex is to know what you like and what you want. Have you ever explored yourself and discovered what feels good to you? Have you ever brought yourself to an orgasm?"